Parents are the most effective teachers in those early years. Behavior experts say that children shape many of the money habits they will carry into adulthood. The study recognizes the power of parents to help kids develop good money management skills starting at home.
My two-year-old begged to learn about money when I started giving our five-year-old an allowance. I thought she was too young and challenged her to count to 100, the number of pennies in a dollar.
Part of my plan was to have my kids learn to count using coins, an activity that turned out to be very popular with the little tykes. Money lessons for my pre-school children included exchanging coins for a dollar. They also decided how to spend their small allowance.
Like all kids, mine wanted money. Why? Because money gets stuff. Kids want money so they can buy their own stuff.
Of course, there is more to money than spending, but with young children when it’s “all about me” the activity of spending for self is the starting point. Having money is a big deal to a three-year-old. Going shopping and making decisions about using money is even more exciting.
Money concepts for young kids
Parents play a big role in helping a child learn five important concepts before age seven.
- Money buys stuff.
- You have to have enough money to buy something.
- People work to earn money.
- Money can be cash or something that represents cash.
- It’s okay to “not spend” so there is more money to buy something later.
Note to parents: For kids, the act of “not spending” is a form of saving. Because the child makes the decision to defer spending he is motivated by a result he expects in the future, e.g. a toy that costs more than he has today.
These years are a great time for you to show and tell as it relates to the world of money. You start by showing your child money in the form of cash and doing the activities in my book. The No-Cash Allowance. As your child learns about cash you tell how money works by explaining what you are doing when you use cash and cash substitutes (check, debit card, credit card, electronic fund transfer).
Lynne Finch helps parents teach their kids about money from piggy banks to online banking. “It’s time to teach the kids how to manage money they can’t see or touch,” says the author of The No-Cash Allowance. Follow Lynne’s common sense approach for teaching children that money is a number with kids as young as pre-school through high school.Follow me on social media: